Ill write more when I get a chance on this. For more read my post The true meaning of Husband. And you really shouldnt get married to someonejust because youre afraid to grow old alone and wonder wholl take care of you; its not right to treat someone else assome kind of aninsurance policy for your old age. Children will be raised by their parents and the other lovers too. Check out this video about financial planning as a couple: Chores are no longer being taken-cared of by one person. You may look at it as a sort of test drive that will improve your chances for marital success. That is responsibility and it doesnt come from signing a peace of pape. And scarcity leads to dependency, which leads to control, which in extreme cases can further lead to exploitation. But spreading the idea that physical love must wait for marriage puts a restriction on the way people express love. I see no manipulation, but I just wanted to show you that there are mistakes in your hypothesis. And last but not least, people who get married or stay married because of children. Again Manu says: A virtuous wife should constantly serve her husband like a god, even if he behaves badly, freely indulges his lust, and is devoid of any good qualities. Omg I know Im a genius but seriously folks!!! #1 venereal disease duhhhhhh?!!!!! Boredom and a long relationship or monogamy, is a cultural cage for the female libido, and kills it. The part that influences the ability to make rational decisions doesn't even fully develop until age 25 for most people. 1. Fed up with the double standard, Japanese women are increasingly opting out of marriage altogether, focusing on their work and newfound freedoms, [] I think children should be raised by people who have a lot of life experience, as well as experience raising other children in the past, as well as proper training. Food was meant to be chewed and swallowed. To answer that question, below you will find some of the things written by several of those experts. Marraige has become soaked in laws and religion. Many children of single mothers develop problems and do poorly in general. Everything is shared, so less stress and more time to rest. If youre doing it because you claim to love someone, then youre also doing it for the wrong reason, simply because true love has nothing to do with ownership of an individual. 1 Corinthians 7: 3 4 What are the religious groups in Lebanon? Could this be a form of living in denial when other factors are involved such as fear of leaving a spouse or being alone or incurring financial hardship? Many people divorce and then remarry. Basically, living together is a form of marriage, but a cheaper, flimsier one. "I'm not ashamed to say it," she said before dubbing abstinence as the second-best decision of her life. No matter how open-minded our society is today, no couple should disregard how important marriage is. What formula did u use to calculate that 75 % ? 2. your statistics are all wrong and you fail to leave links to where you find this information. You tap on wrong common beliefs. And it's wrong for almost everyone. It does not store any personal data. The purpose was to easily control, manipulate and enslave large groups of people through their sexuality. It makes women and men seem like they're incapable of making their own sexual choices and being happy with them. Because you and your partner have agreed to wait until the wedding to sleep together, you dont have to concern yourself with birth control (or the possible failure of it), pregnancy tests, sexually transmitted diseases and any tests for those, and a variety of other unwanted issues that pre-marital sexual activity brings. Our state and federal tax dollars have long been spent promoting "chastity". Only in the sexual realm has the exclusiveness of possession acquired strong emotional overtones[]. ↩. Indeed, sob shialer eki ran!13 It is difficult to say how much of the Hindu conception of women crept into and influenced Islam in the Subcontinent. You cannot love someone else, and make them submit to you so that you can control and rule over them. Click here to read it. In 2011 488 couples got divorced, 528 divorces were registered in 2012 and in 2013 there were 602 divorces. I am the one supporting my family back home financially since I managed to secure a place overseas for my work and studies. In marriage, sex simply gets boring after a while with the same person. Here we can see where all these rules came from and who ultimately benefitted from them the Anunnaki gods. That alone, PROVES EVERYTHING IVE STATED HERE. WebI think it's a bad idea, because you're sort of starting off a relationship as a bit of a sexual hostage. In fact there were many forms of birth control available throughout history. Notice how Reich mentions that 4 years is the average length of time for the sexual basis ofa relationship. To learn more, please click onto the link below to read: Cindy Wright of Marriage Missions International wrote this article. That's a good thing: our relationships with other people, sexual or not, are how we grow, evolve and learn about ourselves. Marriage is not, and has never been, a way to protect against the harmful, bad and dangerous potential of sex (just read the Bible if you want a few examples). The reason is because Congress enacted a law that makes it quicker and easier to get a divorce in the most populous Catholic nation on earth. Nicole, Please dont lower your standards here. (Treachery of women to womem.) Nobody is immune to the many big problems marriage and exclusive relationships create in peoples lives. And to this day there are still cultures where the words used to describe a husband literally mean owner of a wife. Consider that in the bible, when god decides to create a woman, he does so to create a helper for the man, later adding that man shall rule over woman. In the ten commandments, a wife is alsolisted among the properties of a man (a woman was considered first tobe the property of her father, and after marriage her husband). Youve answered your own questions. Women were degraded to mere servants; slaves; property. And if it is does perception then become reality because these people are convincing themselves in some strange and warped way that they actually ARE happy? So, instead of fear-mongering, they armed me with education about condoms, a birth control prescription and knowledge that I needed to be safe and give consent. Its being with your partner and saving money at the same time practical. See footnote 3 in the article. I understand claiming happiness to put on an act to hide unhappiness. "And I have never felt that empty ever again ever again in my life," she added. Here are some of the reasons why couples move in together: If a couple comes to an age where moving in together before marriage makes sense than pay twice for rent. With regard to the Roman Catholic faith, its also good to know where that came from. Whether personally religious or because they come from a religious background, the majority of those who've decided to wait to have sex until marriage have some sort of religious affiliation. Add to this the fact that society makes it difficult for people to satisfy their sexual needs outside of marriage orrelationships, and what you get as a consequence is a lot of unnecessary pain, suffering, and even extreme violence, as Reich explains: Our moralistic sexual prejudices often cause infinite harm by regarding even the mere idea of sexual experience with someone else as adultery, as indecency, and so on. No matter if you test your relationship for years before getting married or have chosen marriage over living together, the quality of your marriage will still depend on both of you. While sex with each different person is unique, the quality of sex reflects learning and experience with that person. While that could be true in some instances, it seems many who've decided to remain celibate until marriage don't think that way at all. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. Your email address will not be published. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Its basically living with the reality of having a partner. A blog post on YourTango by Elizabeth Laura Nelson titled 5 Reasons Being A Single Mom Is WAY Better Than Being A Married Mom (March 2, 2016) confirms much of what I discussed above. Im so confused I dont know what to do. This doesnt mean jumping from the bridge is a good thing. Even among folks in my grandparents' generation, nine out of ten of them had sex before they wed. Of course, just because lots of people do a thing doesn't mean it's a good thing. Some of the biggest myths, as pointed out by Waiting Till Marriage, is the thinking that normal and attractive people dont wait to have sex, or that those who are abstinent are asexual or have a lower-than-normal sex drive. Do you want to know the real, unspoken truth about waiting until marriage? But it was not this way from the beginning. Cohabitation usually is agreed upon when the couple shares an intimate relationship. Some couples who know this first hand, may it be with their family members or even from a past relationship, will no longer believe in marriage. Even though the experience may be pretty awkward for the newlyweds, that isn't necessarily a bad thing. By clicking Accept All, you consent to the use of ALL the cookies. Marriage is slavery. Finally, my own understanding from all this is that marriage is certainly not for everyone and people who are not willing to put in the commitment required need not go into it because God hates divorce. This weakens the individual and as a result theybecome easier to control and manipulate. Only after years of suppression they may think they dont , but deep down they do too. Regardless of religiosity, waiting helps the relationship form better communication processes, and these help improve long-term stability and relationship satisfaction, Busby says. This would require some effort: to see relationships not only as a means to get to sex or having fun socially , but also share workload and sustain the other. Youre getting it all mixed up. Still, many of those who have waited say the pros outweigh the cons. Functional cookies help to perform certain functionalities like sharing the content of the website on social media platforms, collect feedbacks, and other third-party features. The most evolved man here on earth suffered the most. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. It was the time when cohabitation was highly discriminated against because marriage was a sacrament, and living together without the. Regarding Paul (1 Corinthians 7:89), he knew that marriage wasnt a good thing, thats why he never got married and advised people not to. Thus, He cloaks this special act of intimacy with certain safeguards. No biggie, right? But the cult of ME (antichrist) is prevailing until we destroy it. Despite the claims of the wait-till-marriage camp, waiting to have sex won't protect you from heartache, frustration or love lost. A better alternative would be to realize that there are better and more natural ways of living together, and to live our lives accordingly. I live with my boyfriend of two years now, and if we decide to get married, I can go into our lifelong bond knowing exactly what I like or what I don't, and can be 100 percent sure that we have a connection beyond just our sexual needs. As Muammar al-Qaddafi wrote in his book , As psychoanalyst Dr. Wilhelm Reich mentions in his book, Variety is key to be able to live an enjoyable life. [ Schurtz, Katechismus, p. And for those who don't, the regret can be very, veryreal. You will be neglected if you move in with him, as well. Such an arrangement would make sense in a completely new social system such as the Venus Project. When Paul tells Christian husbands that they are to love their wives, this is what he meansdoes this seem to you to be putting women down? The brain isn't even fully developed yet. Think how strange it would be to have only one friend. I came to understand the brutal character traits exhibited under conditions of chronic sexual dissatisfaction. how could anyone who has any understanding of child development and needs advocate taking them away from their biological parents to be raised in a state controlled facility? Is that now true love that will last or is that also destined to fade and die? In fact, in many cases they are actively prevented from being able to do that. The sanctions God imposed on sexual activity outside marriage do not mean that God is a spoilsport or a prude. Cohabitation involves more than sharing just the accommodation. No because most of them dont even realize that marriage is not a natural way of living. Its not an unusual phrase Im sure many of us have casually said those exact words but they reflect perhaps a culturally subconscious view of marriage, that its this independent commodity that requires attention and care, like a car or something. The way it is right now, all parents are really inexperienced especially when its a first child, are often young with little life experience and very little patience, and most of the time have absolutely no clue what theyre doing. And there it was basically slavery, as women called their husbands lord and master, just like a slave, and they were bought and sold as property, which in fact they were. If you do enough research you will find that the purpose of sexual suppression/repression wasnt really about birth control. It therefore illigitimises a lot of these claims above, as it is not the marriage that is making people middle class, or making them live longer. When you are forced to love that is control. Now, there is no need for unhappy couples to wait. The man that youre living with seems very concerned for your safety and well-being. of by one person. "I come from a home where sex was spoken of as natural, exciting, and totally important," she said before adding the important caveat: "within marriage.". Most research on the topic is focused on individuals experiences and not the timing within a relationship, study author Dean Busby, PhD, a professor in Brigham Young Universitys School of Family Life, says in a news release. As psychoanalyst Dr. Wilhelm Reich mentions in his book The Sexual Revolution: Sooner or later, we will find in every sexual relationship shorter or longer periods of reduced sensual attraction, even indifference. Do I go against my beliefs and possibly lose him or do I give in and have that guilt with me for the rest of my life? Also, I showed you that both the man and the woman were punished for their disobedience but once again you ignored the aspect of the men and focused only on the part of the woman. There is no clarity in legal terms as there is for marriage. These findings agree with my own observations throughout the years, that show that relationships between couples usually last between 3 to 4 years on average. Pregnancy is dangerous even now; early abortions surgery- is safer to the woman than a full-term pregnancy. . Man. For him to ask you to do something that is against your beliefs to load you with guilt and bad feelings, just because he wants to be further along in his schooling, there is something wrong here. For example, the enslavement of the people via taxation is often sold to them by convincing them that its necessary for wealth redistribution andto take care of the poor, when in actual fact taxation ultimately benefits a small elite because it transfers wealth from the poor and the middle class to the rich by force (leading to widespread and severe inequality), while at the same time robbing them of their independence and freedom. On the other hand, the economic tie, moralistic demand, and human habit foster the permanency of the relationship. why is sexual gratification the top priority for humans? That idea shouldve been reassuring, exciting, gratifying all those things marriage is supposed to be. Despite having all the money in the world, a beautiful brood of children, an army of nannies and a husband who has secured his place in the sexiest man alive canon, shes divulged that marriage is tough. Further your studies, get an MBA or experience different cultures in other parts of the world. It only seems to be a paradox that the unconscious hatred can become all the more intense the kinder and more tolerant the partner is. One will not meet OTL in their lifetime, but many more special people to love. To the woman he said, I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. One reason is that people who cohabit may be more skittish of commitment and more likely to call it quits when problems arise. Not the love you imagine at 16 or 18 or 21 or 23. It reflected a class society in which womens status depended on the male family heads social status and property. Is this bloke youre shaking with truly worth being utterly cut-off from the Kingdom of heaven? It actually develops narcissism and ignorance. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (you cant be both!). Brough Smyth too remarks that the husband is called the owner of the wife. Thanks for your comment, but I disagree with a lot of the points you make. If such a person became sadistic, it could be safely assumed that a sudden disturbance had obstructed the usual gratification. I want to get married, he wants to be further along in his schooling and feels that we are not in a good place to get married right now, and thats fine. If you need to enslave anyone in an exclusive relationship with you (with or without a contract), you dont understand what love is. Not having the courage to split from their partner renders one in ten married people in a state of inaction, while men were more likely to admit that a fear of being left alone was the motivation for staying put. Some how i support the findings of your research. A very long time ago, there was complete equality between men and women in ancient cultures, and there was no concept of marriage. For more read my post The true meaning of Family. So, below, we provide links to other web sites to help you to further. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. But being an over-thinker, I wasn't 100 percent sure. Interestingly enough, the word svami is even today commonly used for the English word husband: the owner of a wife. The purpose of sexual repression is to weaken and frustrate the individual so that he can be easily manipulated. "Yes, I waited until marriage. Many single or divorced fathers are very unhappy with their child support payments. But dont take my word for it; fromthe essay Women in Mesopotamia (PDF) by Jessica Bieda: The final civilization in Mesopotamian history that this essay will examine is Judea. Dr Willard Harley has a Question and Answer article where he makes some EXCELLENT points. An easy way out, this is the most common reason why people living together do get separated over time. Do they then regret leaving the former partner or do they remain happy with the new one? Were not just talking about Christian experts. Thank you for the great effort to search for evidence. 1It was one of the measures,in a total package of measures, that the gods enforced on humankind in order to frustrate and divide them so that they could be more easily controlled, manipulated and enslaved. It is during puberty that tragedies occur when adolescents, fortunate enough to have salvaged themselves from the harm done during their earlier education, now want to free themselves from their family chains. A morning like this signals that something is not right.With that said, here are 4 common signs God will give you when he wants you to end a friendship. Before you start a relationship, you need to know the meaning of real commitment, and part of this is getting married. Irresponsible people make babies without thinking, even when they are dirt-poor thats when they need marriage ..Marriage means that people are so irresponsible that they need to rely on judge to deal with their problems .. But thinking deeply into this, from religious perspective or a state perspective, no matter from what historical angle you look at it it looks absolutely disgusting. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. Please prayerfully consider what Im trying to say here. They will no longer work hard. Some couples who know this first hand, may it be with their family members or even, Should You Get A Divorce? A responsible person will budget their time and money in such a way as to make sure they can afford a baby THEN and ONLY THEN theyll make a baby .Theyll have the money and the house for their baby already in place before getting pregnant! The study involved 2,035 married participants in an online assessment of marriage called RELATE. According to the study, people who waited until marriage: The benefits were about half as strong for couples who became sexually active later in their relationships but before marriage. With the Middle Assyrian Law 40, the state assumed control of female sexuality, which had previously been left to individual heads of families. The paradox terms u use like geeeez and humble, look like you are not congruent and try to deceive. So Im sure that if Paul lived today, he would just advise everyone not to get married at all. Historical documents dont eliminate the obvious. Why not grant the right to forgive instead ? Would not that be more beautiful than the right to revenge? You just have to consider the fact that theAkkadian words describing a husband (be-el as-sa-tim) mean owner of a wife to realize that, just like a slave,a wife was considered to be a mans property. This often involved keeping her in line through physical means. What about men and women who leave a spouse for someone else, thinking they have found love with the new partner then marry the new partner? Things. It doesnt matter how you want to spin this, it means slavery. RIMUM, son of Shamkhatum, has taken as a wife and spouse Bashtum, the daughter of Belizunu, the priestess (?) I believe in love and family, but not marriage. Our purpose is to evolve, to get closer to the truth not to seek for instant rewards, and regress staying in comfort. I love my husband. Divorce rates are at an all time high, and the younger generation are increasingly starting to avoid getting married in countries around the world. In fact, men are called to do a very difficult job of suppressing the human nature of first thinking about ourselves by constantly and consistently placing their wives needs and interests above their own. I hope this info helps you to understand the situation youre in much better. The theorist we shall quote is Letourneau: In all very primitive societies woman represents the domestic [10] animals, the beasts of burden which the more advanced societies possess: she is indeed treated as a slave, and this certainly is one of the reasons why slavery has been instituted so late in the course of social evolution. June Stephenson summarizes the status of women during this time in her book, Womens Roots: The social and legal position of an Israelite wife was inferior to the position of wife occupied in the great countries round aboutall the texts show that Israelites wanted mainly sons, to perpetuate the family line and fortune, and to preserve the ancestral inheritanceA husband could divorce his wifewomen on the other hand could not ask for divorcethe wife called her husband Baal or master; she also called him adon or lord; she addressed him in fact as a slave addresses his master or a subject, his king. This is an empirically established fact, in the face of which moralistic arguments are helpless. ITS AN ACTIONCHILDREN! Date for at least one year before engagement and participate in a structured, premarital counseling program, which includes psychological testing. (Bill Maier, Ph.D.). think about having shared bills and chores, . What about those people? Are most of them simply trying to put on an act for the world to see? Responsibility does not equal marriage. Mark Regnerus, PhD, of the University of Texas, who wasnt involved with the study, says it suggests to him that couples who prioritize sex promptly at the outset of a relationship often find their relationships underdeveloped when it comes to the qualities that make relationships stable and spouses reliable and trustworthy.. Keep on reading. The word familia itself derives from the Latin word famulus which means slave, servant. I encourage you to read the whole chapter as theres lots more where that came from. 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