Maybe hes not over his ex and still lacks trust in women. This was just wasnt that into you. Even offering to go on holiday with you after only two days of chatting online!!! I promise. Its been a while. Such a crybaby. He did disclose during the evening that he thought I was beautiful but that he had never thought of himself as particularly handsome (again.. insecurity? I had asked if he wanted me to move out. I feel as if I could love him if we had a longer time together but I do very much care for him. Give him his three months and even if its a new girl, hell be back, missing you more if you were really close. They said he was hanging out with his friend and he was fine. Maybe I missed the signals in the days before he sent me the message, maybe I finally relaxed and felt this was something that was going to last and didnt realise he wasnt on the same page. Initially I felt he cant just forget how supportive I have been over a petty thing and accept his mistake, apologise (in fact I tried to mend things although it was his fault) I thought our bond was stronger than that. When I first found out that he was ignoring me I texted him a bunch of stuff and basically called him an asshole. :..(, Omg i felt like crying reading ur msgs im sorry lifes been so cruel. It has been almost four months now since. Its been almost 2 weeks now. I know id tell someone If i wasnt feeling it. He had told me that everything he had ever searched for that he couldnt possibly find he found it in me. I need answers. 3 weeks ago when I was in the hospital for a week after suffering my first seizures while at work, my ghost had had enough. Woth other people, friends, etc too. He slowly backed off after that and then eventually disappeared. This is probably the second time this happened to me, and it makes me feel like guys think Im some sort of psycho, which I know for a fact that Im not! you only reply what I send, is that the way you think of me?.. we never have same schedule for going out, but you have time to go dinner with your friend I feel sorry for him, but I dont want to settle for less. It doesnt take 2 seconds to text and say Ok, this isnt working out. It would have stung, but at least I wouldnt be wondering what was going on. Few weeks more, we hang out a lot and even had intimate times together. If he was such a dick and could not write a word to me i figured this is not a person i could trust. But then I cant help but think if the call keeps going straight to voicemail (not even one ring)- maybe his phone is just broken/ switched off/ been stolen and he hasnt got it fixed yet? I say I can but only for an hour and then I have to leave. Just to reassure you not all guys are like this. Needless to say when we got off the phone I spent the night crying. I signed off until then. Let him ask you some questions, have a little light conversation and then share your thoughts with him. From text msgs to phone calls that last hours and hours. Mmm, I say no, because I dont play around with feelings because I dont like to be played with. He would flirt and had a good personality and one day I suddenly looked at him differently. We kept talking and eventually we exchanged numbers. What I was not expecting was for him to go complete NC. I tell him I would like to be friends but he needs to be real about it and not just say it and drop off. He said he wasnt interested. He texts the next day says hes sorry he was so out of it and glad I came by though. Not all of them, but most of them are spineless douchebags. That would be honest without being hurtful, Broken hearted To tel Anyways, he lived on the other side of the countrysent me flowers and rosses in valentines day and all that crap that girls Dream Both to apologize one said hed literally met his now wife shortly thereafter and was just a chicken-sh!t to not tell me that and the other said he was going through a really bad patch (unexpected death in the family). Then he wished me happy birthday. No way to tell what happened other than he simply sucks. I am trying so hard to move on. I told him I was unusually comfortable with him and he said I should be. I think you made a wise choice by not sleeping with this guy. If you've decided that you want to text him back. Hit it off, had a great time, immediately he asked for another date. The list is exhausting. I know I am awesome and he needs a lot of growing up to do. That helps nothing. Why???? They bait you and bait you. I took a leap of faith, contacted his coworker/friend last month and casually asked about him. Yes I agree its a shame, Kim and Anna, He DID tell me that he was dealing with family and may not be available as much as before. I gave him some space and let myself not to be too bothered every time he wouldnt reply to my emails right away (it took him 3-8 days before replying). Once I came back off holiday and sour a month after the break up to talk. Its still fresh and I feel sore and confused. It leaves the one being left confused with no closure. In the future when you are out with a man, please be mindful of how much you are drinking. Youre wrong. my theory is that creating friendships first is ALWAYS the way to go- you build trust you explore mutual interests, and if there is attraction it can get steamy romantic and it happens to be someone you actually like. Nah, that probably not it, and if it is then he was never truly interested to start with. I too gave him my whole heart, which I had closed for so log after meeting so many jerks on line, he seemed perfect, he emailed everyday, he phoned and told me how much he loved me, but I now believe that he used words to keep me hooked, and failed to follow up with actions and give to the relationship what I did I cannot believe that he would give me that false hope that it was only a break, without even letting me know at the end of it that it was all over. Hi folks On Friday I replied I wont meet you unless you have a great plan, he read it but didnt reply until the next day I didnt even expected him to reply this: Sounds like you didnt want to see me XD, i texted back I think I could say the same for you then he sent a lot of messages saying he texted me but I didnt reply him and blahblah. Given the short time i have not got very concerned. When did having open honest communication become a reference to these negative factors? Also hes driving his daughter to move to Toronto with her things. funny, update: he texted me later on after I posted this comment saying yeah sorry.. been crazy busy.. literally just like that, I replied a day later well me too, since we are both crazy busy whenever we are free we can hang out again. Especially the one I feel the most for. This texting game is just that a game so they can play with us. Since then things were not the same. You can send him a text where you: Here are 15 texts you can send a guy when he disappears: 1. Im confused and hurt. I thanked him for everything and now that I think of it, he mightve been distant replying but it seemed okay. I was excited because it had been a while since I acutally liked someone one a little bit. But for now, I just let myself cry and time will heal. I did end up telling him who I really was and yes he was a little weirded out that I lied I the beginning, but things seemed to be fine between us. Im being driven crazy and if anyone can help me it would be great. I sure didnt and dont. He is even more beuatiful then I rememberd and we really clicked again and he laughed at my jokes and gave me twice like this really nice hug . that i am one of the best woman he ever met.. but whatever!! He will probably try to call in the middle of the night. He treats you poorly time and time again. I really cant play those games with him anymore, as they are destroying me. Finally met had a good time. He said I was the only girl who he ever felt protective and jealous over, but didnt want to be together. Yesteeeeeerdaaaaay. Really we should stay true to our real feelings, nature, impulses.. in exploring other people. Also how things were so amazing between us. Together unless theres is at least some sort of commitment and he had been kinda guy who hadnt been in a normal relationship but anyways when we said goodbye he only kissed my forehead and hugged and told me he wanted to come Get back out there and date more. I finally got up the nerve to tell him I love him at around the 6 month markI was sort of expecting a I love you too back because through his actions it felt like he did. Goodbye to me, he is not into me. By the time he does come back around the tables have been turned because now Im not as interested as I once was because you treated me like an option. If you do, you deserve your entire investment. big halloween party at my friends place after dinner holding conversation becoming a little more difficult. For whatever reason, he let you expire. @_@ Im not obsessed with the guy, its more of an obsession with wanting to know why. We would text all the time everyday. He even said next time we will play more PS4 games which indicate that he would come over to my place. They wernt even conscious games really but more on a sub-conscious level. Gonna give myself a treat after i finished my 1st month of NC with him.! And I would leave him alone after that. I learned a lot about him and I dicovered he was a a much more interesting person than he seemed previously. We had a lovely farewell, I had lots of calls from him at the airport and then one or two when he arrived with them there is a time difference. Different than his. When he wants to hear me, he does the . Anyway, a definite connection, total talk of things we would do in the futurethe last time he contacted me was the 17th. So I tell him the next day we needed to talk. The Pyramid of Love illustrates a six-step process I teach as your dating coach in Love U. People just vanish both men and women. Keep it under control. And when I would call he never called back or mentioned that I called. Should I text him? His self esteem couldnt handle it. Moving on. Thats why it will be best to go our separate ways if we realize that were not a match. He blew up my phone in the beginning then he slowly faded off. well, he turned out to be owner of multinational company, an extremely intelligent, extremely rich and very balanced man. In the text, let him know your standards and that you aren't willing to let go of them simply because you like him. Truthfully, it may a long time coming!!! I have a deep understanding of masculine and feminine psychology, the biological influences that shape our relationships today, and the ways people communicate their romantic feelings and intentions. Me anymore? Met a guy who didnt want a relationship. We have been talking each single day of this month but he is so busy during the week because of the job and we dont text so much during the week, but at least we arrange dates, ask about others days and he says me good night/morning. . and he freaked out and ran away. Ok, so as Im salsaing with this guy ( who btw I was not interested in, strictly dancing) the bartender put a piece of paper into my hand and asked if I remembered his name- of course I did. We never argued or fought. Because I assure you that your man is out there looking for you right now. Thrill of the chase. But now he hardly txts me, tells me what hes doing or is sweet. Ive met one person in particular that Im really into, so well see what happens! I was very hestiant to even reply but something in me said its the first one just reply and see how it goes. Especially since texting brings a lot of uncertainty and anticipation of his reaction to your texts, says Dr. Holly Sciff. You are either in or out! Not like me to see someone that isnt fully divorced. I am very independent. Like I said before, he is the one who told me he loved me etc first. Haha. He just dissAppeared. I cried two days straight and moped all 4 days not coming from my room. I do not want to play games anymore and only put in as much effort as him and wait until he contacts me but I feel as if this is the only way. but I was feeling so emotionally exhausted, and tired I decided to call him out on it..humorously of course since confrontation is not my strongest point. He has to know this is hurting you. Since hes not doing well this probably is not a good time for him to be focused on a relationship. I know its been a week and Ill be okay in time but I actually really really felt something and it makes me Then I found out that he removed me from his friends list and also blocked me in his other account. I was very surpriced and a bit confused. Maria. Ive learned not to invest ANY of my heart, in any man, for any reason, anymore. When he left, he told me how much he liked me and that we absolutely had to meet again if we both have some free time etc We kept texting for the next 2 weeks and I started to talk about another meeting, but I had a very full work schedule, and he said something like, no need to hurry, I wont run away from here I didnt get the hint. You got it. Why would he change so suddenly? Hope you get the guy you deserve soon :). Weeks of never ending texting if we were not able to see each other. The good news is, that doesnt diminish you and what you have to offer some other great guy. This allows him to come back whenever he wants as he never officially ended things with you. He dated a girl 30 years younger than him who hurt him real bad. That was the last I heard from him. Have gotten told that more times, then any woman should hear. I dont think me or any of these women have a problem with him being busyits the cold he blows while being busyno calls no text. So am I the bad guy here? I am a dude who admittedly has shied away from many relationships that were apparently working great. I think that I am having a harder time with this because of the STD issue. I just have to keep telling myself that he only keeps coming back to me because he thinks I will take him back and to not to be his back pocket girl. Is it the holidays or what? I mean, how do you go out of your way to get my number from someone else, flirt with me at work text me and call me beautiful and make plans to hang out and shit then just out of no where you stop talking, you dont even want a hug from me any more, and you quit your job on top of thay now i really wont be able to see you anymore. Im 22, and while we were seeing each other, I was laid off from my job as an editor, and was pretty shaken up about it. Not sure if I can find that again. If he doesnt come around, its his loss. He invites me after work to see him at his place for a bit. We went out for a meal about 3 weeks ago, and decided that we would like to see each other again. I was freaking out so he gave me a small card before going to the washroom that said please relax. Sure its a cowardly way to go about it, but I am not as judgy about this than I used to be. They give histories of being badly burned. Looking backwards or maybe on your current experiences what would you say would be the best for a girl who cares about a guy like you to do? Somewhere in the middle I began to experience severe physically debilitating symptoms (to date). Its been a week and I keep replaying the whole date. You are way better off. 2.hes just not that into you meaning he is above your league. We even talked for the first time about those times we hooked at parties. I also dont feel alone in my situation! I would totally be ok with a guy disappearing if they didnt allow me to open my heart to them so much in the first place. This way you at least preserve your dignity. I gave it to him..and he never called. My boyfriend of 5 years did this to me several times! We tried to hang out last Tuesday night but he said he could not due to his younger brother. If he is passing along an STD, that really says all you need to know about him. Exactly how I feel too. Thats so unfair! He never does. We were texting and talking on phone a month before we met personally. I felt like we had a good timehe took me to a really nice place after the restaurant where you can see the whole city and after that I went home cas I had told And then youll find another new guy you can try and spin something great out of. I dont care who it is, friends, Direct tv, whoever, lol I dont like it when people dont contact me back. I am SO confused!!!! And obviously it IS about your self worth because most women wouldnt stay with someone who treated them like that and insist that the person cares about them. I do the first step (because if I dont, nothing will ever happen), I show attention, I call, I step over my insecurities to say and do things Im not so certain I should, I pay more attention to how I look and what Im saying and in general do a great deal of things I wouldnt do if I cared less. Despite this occurrence, I took him up on an offer to go to his bayhouse for a day trip that upcoming weekend. Thus, when a woman gets too close to me, I panic for I feel as if I will repeat the same abuses that I have witnessed growing up! I dont want to see him or talk to him ever now. Theyll get the message eventually. Hard times dont build character, they reveal it. @ Cathy When this happens our first reaction is to want to know why. Who have said they want to MARRY you? Yes, people are complex, but that doesnt mean you should just assume they are too complex. This guy isnt man enough to handle the situation like an adult, so youre going to have to be the adult. But then again during halloween I just wished him just like to other friends and he immediately started responding. He wasnt and i truly believed he was extremely sincere, saying things like ive told you more then Ive told Tammy in pur entire relationship. Hes gone! 1. Time to let go and move on- pursuing someone whos got their back to you is a depressing prospect; the sooner you let him out of your life the better it will feel. I was expecting a text back later that night but he hasn't text me or call me so l didn't contact him either. Even if he doesnt think that youre a match, he should be able to speak to you about that. He told me when he came to see me that he ton his kids hes visiting a friend.Im so heartbroken. Youre being the chaser if you text him and he ignores you, you put up with flakey behavior, and when your curiosity and interest arent reciprocated. You dont say how old you are, but my guess is you are fairly young. Don't kid yourself or make excuses for the guy. We meet someone, we go head on into being serious. Why do you take all this time and effort to get to know and be with someone and then just ghost them. Please stay out of my life. And I wont. What is known is that he wasnt in to you, for whatever reason. Generally if i am very attracted i have NO IDEA whether i really like someone at the beginning. Like Oprah says, The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them. My bet is that this isnt the first time hes been flighty towards you. Well little did I know the night before we were suppose to meet was the last night I would talk to him. I saw him at the store later that night avoided him. No answer. it was shocking and hurtful. Third date comes along we go out and once again have a good time and we dont realize we were up so late talking. Its unfortunate when you know you dont have the same connection with the new guys youre hanging out with. He never once even insinuated he wanted m to permanently leave him alone. 3. Before he had to leave for work my new years eve, he showed me my Christmas gift and told me visiting him to pick up the gift would be his Christmas gift. I will kiss my prince one day. He was clearly pulling away. Suffice to say he hasnt replied (its been 8 days) reading the blogs/comments here im in 2 minds: do I drop a friendly text to see if hes still alive? They act like they cant text you/call you but they are on Facebook every 5 minutes lol. She had been dating a guy, and things were going great, when she asked where he saw the future going. 2. Heres a scenario that might sound familiar. I sensed nothing was wrong. When a guy suddenly goes missing from your life, you want to find out what to text him when he disappears. A guy might disappear for a range of reasons such as loss of interest, priority to anything excusable, to something like his phone dying. I try to keep a levelhead and let it all go. When you go would you even turn to say I dont love you like I did for a month i didnt talk to him the decided to text him blaming him for his unkept promisses( again my bad!!) Hard thing is i care about him a great deal, But my emotions with this situation are all over the place. I cant seem to forget this guy. Good luck, I am thinking of you! I was bummed.. but hey, we were not dating, I could do whatever I wanted to with my life, and so could he.. We were in touch a bit after that but it was me initiating and I invited me to hang, he said he was out of town, then I reached out again one more time and he, for the first time ever, did not respond to me at all. Because I am not into chasing people. I enjoyed the best of texting with a BF where his thoughtful texts brought smiles to my face and the worst where weve ended what we had through texting because it was so conveniently instant. Ashley no matter how you slice it, not responding to you for an entire week was not cool on his part. I do agree if they are your partner they should have the time and interest or move on but then you wouldnt be calling someone like that your partner.. He came and just didnt wanted talk about relationship bcoz I thought it was over and helped him that day and during dinner he just catched up what he was doing for those 2 months and I told him about me. However, you need to be aware of your behavior to decide whether this is the case or not. I came back all refreshed we were getting but I was still a bit cautious . We moved onto another place to drink. They are magnets to co-dependents and vice versa. I always thought tht this would not have happened to me but was so wrong. 3 Months is a lot of time and there should be at least a modicum of trust and comfort built up by then. When I was a teenager, I was a part of a forum and met a lot of other teenagers there over so many years and one guy in particular I grew really close to. If he still doesnt answer then youve got to let it go. I dont understand how we were doing so well and then he just disappears :s he stopped snapchatting in general as well, all his best friends are gone so he doesnt respond to anyone, I was his top snapchatter as well. Hes either lazy or its just a cop out. I guess time will heal Cant wait to be over this ???? If shes feeling you no matter what youre going through what youve been through she wants to be there. It is approaching the end of this period, and Im scared. I agree with you totally, My situation is so much worse and has just become ridiculous, I dont even know what the heck anymore. My life is a mess..:<(. you should have moved on long ago. He must know that you can clearly tell whats going on and you wont tolerate his behavior. We still texted but minimally and he came to pick me up midday for food and a little excursion. He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you. I mean even if he doesnt want to text he could message me online and say hi. Of course this maybe just wishful thinking, and he is not contacting me because he is just not into me anymore, but I would like to reach out one more time before he forgets me, wish him a happy new year, let him know that I waited to hear from him after the 4-6 week break (at least he said! Recently broken up Also, read my comments above. I have been in longterm relationships for much of the last few years, and Im newish to dating again. Going down this path because something is better than nothing can actually make your heartbreak so much more intense, so bad that it causes some women depression. I think it gets complicated the older you are and if there are kids, etc., etc. He talked about wanting to see my apartment and other things that would leave me to believe this would not be the last time I saw him. I have finally got my DVDs back after doing what you just said, bugging & bugging him. I had high hopes, i thought guys like these acts. I met this guy at his job. I know many men that constantly try to improve themselves to find an amazing woman. Although we do share some similar patterns, we are all different given our familial, cultural, and even racial background. Well, now hear I am, three dates later(but three weeks later of constant talking and him making efforts to see me everyday), no sign of leaving, completely started to like him, and he wont even speak to me :) GHOSTED. at the time, I was like whats wrong with me? Well, its time I stop playing myself for a fool for this guy. We talked for a little bit, then I sent a mundane text about what I had for lunch, then I heard nothing from him. These are the type who really cant appreciate us so even if we took it further, we would probably still get that ghost end result. Oh my battery just died. Of course, I fell in love with him too and completely head over heels. No urgency to meet So we recently made plans to get together a couple of months ago, just a date to see how it goes, Made the date, figured out what we were going to do, and I had to hang up. I have heard that guys get a bit weird around the holidays, especially with a new girl. He said he was busy and was going to text me later. Now Im seeing someone else. I know it makes me angry and hurts because it is so disrespectful. Im guessing not and no, dear, once you have started dating her, no matter how unpleasant it may be you are responsible to give a few minutes of your precious time to this human being so she is not left in the dark, particularly during what sounds to be a difficult, aimless phase of her life. First he said I hardly had time to come on here (which I found odd but hes doing long shifts). He was eager to meet and planned a first date for us, which was the best date ever. My situation is so similar! And yes there are a lot of inconsiderate immature douchebags out there who give men a bad rep, just like women looking for placeholder men give other women a bad rep. My theory works, and i stick by it- friendship, then commitment, then love, THEN and only then is there any talk about long term future plans. He never answered back. after reading your articles everything started making sense to me that he lost interest and i realized he doesnt like me that much anymore. But all in all, I hope you find someone amazing one day, you deserve it. It was always because something happened at work or about his family and everything like that, and I always tried my best to cheer him up. Anxiety will often lead you to make rushed decisions that you might regret later. And then one night he agreed on meeting up just to talk. I go with the flow at my age but desire exclusivity. Right to come along, if he does exist, or looking for Mr. He booked tickets for an event 6 months ahead of time. The final conclusion is we would hold hands walking into the party so everyone knows I am with him, aka I am taken. Thank you so much for this article! He then ignored me for a month after i told him not to contact me and that behaving like that and saying he was still into me was text book stringing someone along. Sorry its long and confusing but I tried to give as much information as possible. I laugh when he texts me by mistake my name and his bestfriends name are listed next to each other to see if he gets a quick response from me. I was a bit disappointed but I replied that it is better to be just friend. Sabrina, sometimes I do think they want us to follow up. We started to have sex and it was great for us both again we were a good match. In text based relationships this happens all too often. Some of them not answering me back is fine because I didnt feel like there was a strong mental connection anyway. Its a mutual emotional sickness. He didnt disclose of that until I had to ask him. What hurts me is, he went 360 on me, from being a sweetheart to ignoring me without any known reason. i cant force anybody to talkand there is no point in losing my dignity. But it will be if you dont back off and give him space. 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